On Viriginity (alleged or otherwise), Anal Sex and STDs
As much as I’d like to share my thoughts about sex and sexuality (it’s been a while but the memories are still vivid…. I assure you) I think that Aesop in 560 BC may have done a far better job than I ever could when he said:
“It is with our passions, as it is with fire and water, they are good servants but bad masters.”
Ever since I could remember religious groups in the US (as well as many other countries) have been preaching and advocating abstinence and virginity pledges as the only sure fire way to prevent STDs and preserve the sanctity of marriage.
You’d think that their argument would make sense, for the most part sexually transmitted infections (or diseases) (STDs or STI’s) tend to occur as a result of well ….. sex and one could logically infer that taking sex out of the equation would make everybody feel safer and would be the ultimate cure.
However as with condoms, diaphragms, and the oral contraceptive pill the term abstinence seems to be far too complex for most of the US religious right to grasp ….. especially at the tender young age they tend to be roped into the whole thing at ……for the most part the damn kids (13-20) tend to get confused very easily and can’t quiet grasp the difference between no sex, oral sex, anal sex and everything but vaginal sex. And with that in mind a substantial number of pledges have decided to engage in everything but vaginal sex (the damn lemmings think that the backdoor doesn’t count ….. fucking priceless) which has lead to an increase in anal sex amoung the little angels and almost no reduction in the rates of sexual transmitted diseases in that age group.
So it turns out that virginity pledges have done practically nothing to reduce STD rates and have ensured that the incidence of anal sex is on the rise (if that isn’t irony I don’t know what is ….. fucking priceless) and worst still a recent study now says the the vast majority* of pledgers tend to lie about the previous sexual history in the first place (wanting to become born again virgins ….. no wonder they all loved Britney way back when)
Then again all of the studies mentioned/linked to above (not to mention common sense and vivid memories of teenage angst) could all be wrong , as a recent study published be the RAND corp. claims the pledges do actually work and they even make using condoms easier for the little buggers !!! Oh well my bad (its not like the RAND corporation has ever been accused of anything to do with the religious right, trying to influence politics or has ever been run by republicans in the past….. and yes I am being sarcastic)
I guess it’s back to using condoms and wishful thinking …….
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Dec 17th 2008 • 23:12
by blasha
sex sex sex, isn’t it enough that i witness 2 ppl havin sex in a public place the other day, and the weather isn’t even helping these days
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Dec 17th 2008 • 23:12
by blasha
witnessed*
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Dec 18th 2008 • 01:12
by Ruby Woo
lol the pictures are quite disturbing.
A lot of places have the same idea when it comes to losing your virginity. They see it as a matter of technicality when it’s just plain stupidity.
Question: What’s with anal sex? From what I’ve heard (emphasis on heard) is that it brings no pleasure to women so why do it anyway?
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Dec 18th 2008 • 06:12
by KTDP
Blasha: ….and you didn’t post any details/pictures. Worse still it happened in a hospital ……
Ruby Woo: I thought the picture were funny (but that’s just me) I could write 3 posts worth of info regarding anal sex and it’d still be a mystery to most ……
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Dec 18th 2008 • 07:12
by Intlxpatr
A recent New Yorker article quoted a study that says children of the religious right in the USA have MORE sex and start younger than those from other families. The most religious started the youngest. And there seems to be a lot of confusion about just what constitutes having sex. I worked in a high school – when students would ask me, I would laugh and tell them “if you don’t want to tell your parents about it, consider it sex.”
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Dec 18th 2008 • 09:12
by shwaish
yeah, thats why when stupid people claim that a girl is pure and virginal, i say define virginal??? or virgin? and il pictures are cute :p
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Dec 18th 2008 • 11:12
by Ansam
LOL and I wonder how you came across such pictures… I am at work and crossing fingers no one saw me reading your post hehheheh! Interesting post to say the least!
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Dec 18th 2008 • 12:12
by blasha
what details
i didn’t see anything! they were trying to discreet but i was too close to the bathroom, i heard some sighing and moaning, was dead jealous, is that enough?
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Dec 18th 2008 • 14:12
by KTDP
Intlxpatr: I suppose that would be the best way of putting it (if you don’t tell your parents about it, consider it sex)
shwaish: I never could figure out why being “pure and virginal” is considered a good thing? I personally think that a partners favorite color would be a far more reliable indicator of compatibility than whether or not s/he has done this, been there or done that.
Ansam: yeah …. I think the pcitures may have gotten my blog banned in a couple of places …. hehe
Blasha: There’s a reason why they put a camera in ever fone….. and seeing as you own about 60 different phones, you’d think that thered be at least a 10 second clip for us to gawk at all week ……
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Dec 18th 2008 • 16:12
by blasha
lmao!
al7een i’ll try a9aweerlik shay :p bs la tiz3al LOL
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Dec 18th 2008 • 16:12
by blasha
madri shfeni sayra kil ma amsik shay atkahrab :/ am i thaaaaat charged
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Dec 19th 2008 • 01:12
by Oranjina Fadidra
:O oh dear god! “picture” with 1002 words yet freaky lol .. anyway, how you came up with that topic :p
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Dec 19th 2008 • 02:12
by KTDP
blasha: If there’s one thing I learnt from working for the ministry of Health it’s no never get too pissed off at anyone for anything……It’ll take alot more than a picture to get me pissed off hun.
Oranjina Fadidra: Just thought is was one of the lesser known, more ironic things to write about that’s all.
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Dec 19th 2008 • 19:12
by blasha
^_^
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Dec 21st 2008 • 10:12
by shwaish
yeah ana i’ve said it time and time again, experience trumps virginity and shit anytime! laish il tajarob it9eer 3alay??
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Dec 22nd 2008 • 22:12
by eshda3wa
did u take the pictures urself ?
religious groups vs raging hormones
we all know whos most likely to win
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Dec 26th 2008 • 10:12
by KTDP
Shwaish: “experience trumps virginity anytime” a perfect bumper sticker if I ever saw one
eshda3wa: Nope. I’ve never been too good with cameras (sadly)
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Dec 27th 2008 • 17:12
by teach
What do you call a nun on a skateboard?
Vergin(g) on the ridiculous…..
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